Mothers-to-be who have been pregnant once are full of happiness on one side, all kinds of longings and worries about the future on the other side, and face all kinds of physical discomforts, and even some diseases unique to pregnancy. Pregnancy in October is not only a physical change, but more importantly a psychological change, as well as the confidence and courage to fight the disease. Being a mother is strong and opening a new page in a mother's life.
With the swelling of the abdomen of the expectant mother, the weight increases, the blood volume also increases, and the load on the heart, lungs, liver and kidneys gradually increases. The hormones produced by the placenta allow the mother-to-be’s body to adapt to the changes brought about by fetal development, and it also brings discomfort that the mother-to-be has never experienced before, such as varicose veins, hemorrhoids, edema, etc., and even severe vomiting, high blood pressure, Fatty liver and so on.
Pregnancy in October, although it is not long in the mother's life, the risks experienced during this period are not many. There are even a few mothers who pay the price of their lives for giving birth to a new life. Therefore, since ancient times, childbirth was actually a "hurdle", a very important and insurmountable "hurdle" in a mother's life, and a "ghost gate" in the game of life and death. Such as placental abruption, uterine stroke, postpartum hemorrhage, amniotic fluid embolism, etc., are all fatal complications of childbirth. Even if these complications do not occur, the labor pains are unbearable, and mothers who have experienced labor pains have no pain to bear. However, new mothers are somewhat at a loss when facing a fresh little life, especially first-time mothers. Because they have no parenting experience, various new events need to be faced and dealt with. In the absence of care and attention, The mentality of helplessness, incompetence, and low self-esteem spontaneously arises. Many people suffer from depression. The latest statistics mean 14%.
Since the founding of the People’s Republic of China, very few mothers are full-time mothers, most of them are part-time mothers who work (work) while feeding their children. At work, women do not let their beards and eyebrows, and in life, they raise their children wholeheartedly. The children’s clothing, food, shelter and transportation are all permeated with mother’s hard work and sweat. As sang in a song, "Teach me to learn to speak, help me to walk", and do everything I can to shelter the child from wind and rain. Every bit of growth and progress of the child brings unspeakable joy, happiness and pride to the mother. At the same time, every bit of physical discomfort and trouble of the child also affects the mother's heart, wishing to take over all the troubles and pains of the child. It can be said that it is exhausted, and it is said that "the parents of the world are sorry".
What is more important is the child's education, which is a big part of the mother's "heart disease", because "the mother is the child's first teacher." Nowadays, it is not the single education mode of "raising children against revisionism" or "raising children against old age", but the education models and systems of ancient and modern China and foreign countries flood the streets and alleys, impacting the mother's vision, and the mother is confused. Anxiety, helplessness, exhaustion, and even insomnia can directly or indirectly affect the mother's health, so that endocrine disorders appear, promote the growth of fibroids, and increase the growth of breast lobules.
From the birth of the child to the puberty, the mother’s company is inseparable. The mother grows up with the child, happy with the child’s happiness, proud of the child’s pride, and at the same time anxious about the child’s anxiety and suffering from the child’s pain. Really share fate with breathing. When a child encounters his mother’s "menopause" during adolescence, there will be conflicts and estrangement of this kind. At this moment, the mother will have varying degrees of loss and anxiety. That is the disappointment and anxiety of the free-flying child. The child "takes off", the mother’s heart Also "floating". "Wandering man's shirt line in the hands of a loving mother" Ah! At the same time, changes in mother's ovarian hormones will cause her own physical discomfort, which is intertwined. If she can't recognize and adjust in time, it will aggravate menopausal symptoms.
When the child reaches the age of marriage and marriage, the mother must not only play the role of "attracting investment" and "in the midst of planning", but also play the role of "Secretary of the Commission for Discipline Inspection" and strictly control the role of the "Minister of Finance". The economic backing of the country includes both the supervision of marriage and the reluctance of marriage, reluctant to give up in the supervision, and urge in reluctance to give up. Only the joy and sorrow of the parents at the wedding. Even if the child is "handed over" as it pleases, the mother will still worry about the child's future and the child's future, and the mother's heart will accompany the child until it stops beating. Mother's blood pressure will naturally not be stable, and cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases will come quietly. If blood sugar rises again, the risk of endometrial cancer will increase. Therefore, remind perimenopausal and postmenopausal mothers that they should look at their children with an appreciative attitude, look at the world with a calm attitude, and treat their neighbors with a peaceful attitude, so that they can "live longer than the Nanshan Mountains and the pine and the East China Sea. ".